Love is such a weird thing.
Is it a feeling, an adjective or what?
I don't want to believe in the whole soul mate thing, because if you meet them, then that's it, your life is complete, you've found the one person who was made for you.
but say if you missed that person by a minute, and you never met your soulmate, does that mean you'd never truely be happy with your life?
so the soul mate idea..not my cup of tea.
i think it makes women believe in an all powerful universe somwhere, pairing people off who are perfect in more ways than you can describe, but i promise you there isn't, and i'm not gunna kid myself with a bullshit idea of having a soul mate.
sometimes the worst pairing can be the best of relationships.
sometimes the worst pairing can be the best of relationships.
and...how do you even know your in love? is there something that you can pinpoint and say "i know i'm in love"
i'm probably being cynical, because i know i've never been in love..i've been in lust and i've felt something for people, but i would never classify it as love. it's too much of a strong word.
i have no idea, maybe someday, i can clarify what this so called 'love' crap is all about.
when it happens, i'll let you know.
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3 comments:
lovely post, refreshing to hear that kind of stuff. not all happy& in love. good. me neither. hahaha
i rly like ur blog!! xxx keep in touch!!
I feel like I can't really make a valid comment myself because i've never been in love but regardless, I think the feeling is hyped too much. Maybe we do get a certain feeling of contentment knowing we have found the "one" but for me, i'd find far more contentment feeling comfort and security in myself. I think we are exposed to so many tacky and naive projections of love, we are just relying on false hope. Sorry, such pessimism!
On the voting subject, I wouldn't vote on wives style although I feel I can trust that more than the politicians themselves. If I were able to vote, i'm not sure i'd vote at all. I feel like they have taken advantage far too much to be worthy of my trust.
Kirstie Marié
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Insightful, but you can afford to be optimistic, Leni - I used to make cynical, realist-type statements like this all the time. But, I have found my soulmate. And not in the cliched, over-used sense - Callum's quite simply my best friend, and the only person I've ever gotten on so well with. It can happen! Haha :P
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